That thing called trust...

Who do you actually trust..?

A question I'd like to think I could answer simply without batting an eyelid..and yes there are the obvious answers..in my case that would be Mum..the one person in the world I trust the most.

Then there are the other answers that follow on: members of our family, friends..and if we have another half..we intend to include them in that trust 'circle' too.

But what do we do when that one person breaks this trust or we just simply start to lose trust in them..?

Can bridges  be rebuilt or is it all just too late?

Sometimes those bridges can be mended and glued back together again..and we let the past flow under the bridge. We can learn to trust that person again, talk and communicate with that person.

Then there are times it's as though we feel the need or pressure to gain that person back in our lives, even though the threads of trust are barely hanging on. As well as the risk of it happening again with severe consequences for next time.

The ones that truly lose our trust can sometimes be the most devastating in our lives..going through heartache, trust issues, breaking off family ties..making us build those walls up again piece by piece..

Who knows if we can ever mend trust back again..maybe we can over time..day by day..

Lou

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Men: Why can't they mind read the female brain?

Can men not really take a hint? Do they not understand those keywords and phrases such as "I'm fine" or "Nothing"

They are either plainly ignoring these warning bells..or simply avoiding it so they don't end up being abused by the hurls of objects coming their way; whether it be by words or certain objects.

I sometimes like to think they are just too simple and cannot pick up on these hints even if it mean I'm

going to be annoyed at him for the rest of the day.

However as much as I'd like them to understand these hints..its been said over and over again..we need to tell them how it is otherwise they will never get it!

So maybe it's not their fault entirely..maybe us ladies need to just lay it out for them! Only not when we are fuming at them..once we've calmed down enough without having the need to chuck a pillow or two at their head! Just maybe that communication will make all the difference..

Lou